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Saumu Mbuvi doesn’t understand what attracts and keeps men

February 25, 2021 at 10:32
Saumu Mbuvi doesn't understand what attracts and keeps men

Saumu Mbuvi is a hurt woman and as you know, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. It was revealed that the father of her second child, the man whom she had taken to referring to as her hubby, is no longer with her.

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It didn’t end there, as a matter of fact, it turned out that Bwana Anwar Loitiptip had left her for one of her friends, a female called Aeedah Bambi who she claims was able to get her hubby because she was sending him “pornographic material”.

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Saumu Mbuvi and former lover, Senator Anwar when they welcomed their newborn baby

This was the point at which I started laughing. I was talking about this mess with my colleagues and I couldn’t help but burst out laughing. The idea that a man can be “torn away” from his partner by pornographic content is ludicrous and needs to be laughed at.

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Listen Saumu Mbuvi, it is clear you haven’t been taught how to attract nor keep a man. Why? Because for starters, your argument about pornographic content is a myth. Millions of men have subscribed to Only Fans accounts but they do not leave their girlfriends and wives (on the rare occasion such men have significant others). Also, it goes against our evolved experiences with men and polygyny.

Saumu Mbuvi

Saumu Mbuvi is now a single mother of two

The main issue here is that Saumu Mbuvi is seemingly blaming the fact that Aeedah Bambi was sexually available to Anwar for his decision to leave her. Make no mistake about it, sex is an important factor in relationships but it isn’t the only factor. As a mentor of mine likes telling me, sex opens the door but the woman’s behaviour is what keeps her in the room.

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Saumu Mbuvi needs to understand that no man in his sane mind would leave a fit, feminine, cooperative and submissive woman for another woman who only has sex to offer. Even his father will slap him. His own friends will call him out for doing such dumb bullshit. Look at Jalang’o and how he was torn apart when the internets thought he was stepping out on his wife for a second time.

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Saumu Mbuvi with her friends at her formerly owned club, Wakanda

Anwar Loitiptip is not the most eloquent man nor the smartest in the way he articulates problems. I would go as far as to say that he, like alot of Kenyan politicians simply ride the coattails of whatever political party is dominant in support base within his constituency because when he talked about what issues he faced while dating Saumu Mbuvi, he said she is bi-polar.

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While that wasn’t the brightest way to put it, he had actually told Saumu why he left her: he had no peace. no man ever wants to come home from the war he fought that day, only for his woman to create another battle at home. Especially not a high networth man who has alot of options.

Saumu Mbuvi

Saumu Mbuvi celebrated single motherhood on her IG account

No man wants to come home to a cantankerous woman and even the Bible talks about this. Saumu Mbuvi is, however, the victim of society’s failure to teach men and women how to pair bond. Think about it, we go to school to study academics that will allow us to pursue different careers. We go to Sunday school to learn about the Bible and religion. But who teaches boys and girls about how to have successful families?

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