We were right, Amberay is ruining Jimal Roho Safi’s family

Amberay and Amira had a fight recently that was captured on candid camera and while I hate to be one of those people, I have to do it nonetheless and let you know that we were right about the type of venom the clown of a man, Jimal Roho Safi is for inviting this type of venom into his household.

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You see, while what a man needs to establish a polygamous marriage is financial means -he has to be wealthy- not all men are capable of maintaining a polygamous household and we are seeing that now.

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Jamal introduces Amberay to his people

To be much, much more clear about things, what we are seeing is that Jamal Roho Safi is not the type of man who can sustain a polygamous marriage. And that also stems from the fact that he chose to wife up a trollop like Amberay.

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One has to wonder where his friends and mentors were when he started having delusions of grandeur regarding this socialite. Why didn’t they advise him to keep their affair strictly a secret?

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Amberay in her natural habitat…

Could it be as I had earlier postulated that the man is hard of hearing because of his financial clout? Or could it be that Amberay is just that good a siren and she lured him despite all the advice he was given? Or has he simply surrounded himself with “yes men”?

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It is really fascinating to see how everything that can go wrong in a polygamous family is unfolding right in front of our eyes and we get the benefit of learning from a lesser man’s mistakes.

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Amberay posting her usual thirst traps

Amberay, on her part, as I had pointed out much earlier, is on her second polygamous union and even in the previous one, she was a very big part of why it did not last. She was married to a failed politician cum business tycoon, Zaheer Jhanda and while with him, she nearly razed his marriage to the ground.

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Amberay and Jamal Marlow are a picture-perfect couple… For now

Why Jamal Marlow aka Jimal Roho Safi decided to pursue her for marriage is beyond me. It is even more interesting to note that he has decided that defending this union against his former wife is the hill he is going to die on even though she has borne him heirs to the kingdom he is building while Amberay comes with her own son whom he shared little else in common other than her lady bits… He came out of them, and he, Jamal is ensnared by them.

A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

Things will only get worse because while Amberay is lying to low IQ women that she is the victim of Amira’s hostility, we evolved species can see that she is the literal cause of all the issues and drama in Jimal Roho Safi’s homestead and will continue to be a sore wound.

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What we should learn from Jamal Roho Safi, Amberay and Amira

Jamal Roho Safi, Amira and Amberay are playing out a very destructive scene. The trio is playing out their drama in such a toxic fashion, you cannot help but feel bad for all the children involved.

A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

But we aren’t here to commiserate with all the hurt hearts, we are here to see what we can learn from the matter. And the first thing we are going to look into is the fact that Jamal’s family ain’t shit if they haven’t yet stepped in to set him straight.

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Jamal Roho Safi with Amberay

Where are these clowns families? Where are those uncles that Jamal Roho Safi introduced to his second wife? Where are his aunties? Or perhaps they are scared to say anything because he is the most financially successful member of the Marlow family.

Jamal Roho Safi shows us how not to start a polygamous marriage

But then we must also ask where his friends and mentors are. Does he have any or does he simply surround himself with yes-men? People who are mere cheerleaders and chorus dancers and it troubles me that this man has immersed himself in an echo chamber.

And then there is the manner in which he is handling the fights going on between Amberay and Amira. There is the fact that he has not built with Amberay. She came with what she had, she came as the socialite trollop she was. However, he has built with Amira. And his scarcity mentality does not allow him to simply put his foot down.

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This shows that he has no control over his household. he is not the man in his family. He might be high networth but he is not high value. that is why these two women are not under his control and guidance. they are busy destroying each other and him online and all he has the power to do is to hold his cojones and watch their drama unfold. He is limp.

As for Amira, we get it, she is fighting for her family. But sometimes it is easier to just remain silent and focus on the children than engage with a woman who knows what it means to be nasty. She needs to sober up and temper how she is responding to the provocation. She basically has to learn to shut up.

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What Amira thinks she is accomplishing by fighting for her family is actually counter to what she wants. let Jamal Marlow do his thing and you focus on building up a business. We have seen that he was the one who pursued Amberay which means she is a symptom of the problem and she needs to focus on the actual problem and keep their fights offline and in the confines of their bedroom.

Amber Ray and Amira

As for Amberay, I have nothing to say to a trollop. Yes, you might have money but you can’t buy class. This is the second time you have been married as a second wife and you will eventually have to answer for the chaos you kick up. And trust me when I say your son will also introduce chaos to your life because all you have taught him is entropy.

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A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

Amberay and Jamal Marlow or Jimal Roho Safi would be well advised to open their Bible’s and learn from the wisdom of Moses/ Musa because in his wisdom, he said in Exodus 21:10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.”

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I am ofcourse referring to the fact that Jimal Roho Safi is actually a man who was previously married to a lady by the name of Amira. According to their faith, Islam, he is allowed up to four wives but he has to get his first wife onboard for that to happen. And she claims he didn’t.

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Jamal introduces Amberay to his people

But Ozymandias, I hear you asking, doesn’t he still provide financially for his first wife and their children together? Well, that he most certainly does but the truth of the matter is that men do two things for a family and their wives: they provide and protect and he has failed in the latter function.

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Amberay has made that abundantly clear as she has gone out of her way to attack Amira and be both immature and catty. She is acting like she doesn’t understand why a married woman would react with hostility when her husband introduces a new wife to social media before he introduces the two of them to each other.

Amber Ray and Amira

Add to this a more important fact: Amberay is the type of femme fatal to ruin marriages. She has done so before when her former husband, Zaheer Jhanda attempted to introduce her to his family as a second wife and she kept attacking his first wife. She has formed something of a habit of doing so.

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Jamal doesn’t seem to understand why it is important for him to actually have studied his new wife’s past. And that is why I say he has turned his castle into a house of cards when he invited her into his family.And it is she who will huff and puff and blow it all down.

Amberay is the type of woman many a man is warned about. She just needed to approach her new position as a co-wife with humility and some sense but she didn’t. She chose violence. And the truth is that Jamal seems to have backed the wrong horse. And unless he wakes up and smells the coffee, when his chips are finally down (and make no mistake, they will be sooner or later with Amberay being the cause), we would all forgive Amira for taking her pound of flesh and repeating this dreaded phrase,

Talaka. Talaka. Talaka.

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If this businessman has any mentors or friends he heeds, they need to tell him to step away from his social media and actually mend fences with his first wife who has been with him before he was anything or anyone of renown.

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Amberay’s first husband, Zaheer Jhanda

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Jamal Roho Safi shows us how not to start a polygamous marriage

Jamal Roho Safi recently made the news for all the wrong reasons: he was caught up in a love scandal with established video vixen and socialite, Amberay who outed their love affair and revealed that he was taking her on as his second wife.

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But there was just one problem -despite his religion, Islam, allowing him to take up to four wives, he has to get the support and acceptance of his first wife before he brings in a second or more to his household.

Jamal Marlow Jimal Roho Safi

And wouldn’t you know it, she recently revealed that this protocol and cultural dictate was not observed. According to Jamal Roho Safi’s first wife, Amira,

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 ”The thing is, kila mtu ni mtu mzima… It was his own decision. Sio rahisi. But usisasahau pia; according to religion, ukiwa unaoa mke wa pili unafaa umjulishe mke wako wa kwanza…. Sio sawa kwangu na haitawai kuwa sawa… Dini inaruhusu lakini mimi sikujulishwa.

Mimi mwenyewe nilikuja kujua kwa social media…”

And you can imagine just how spineless this approach seems to anyone with a head and sense of courage and common decency. I get it, every story has two sides but I do not see a reason for Amira to lie on Jamal Roho Safi’s name so I have to ask why he took such a spineless route.

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You see, high-value individuals are not to be confused with high networth individuals. Jamal is the latter. When a man has ascended to the top of his world, it is only natural for him to attract attention from both women of value (traditional women) and trollops. Thing is, however, that if he is married, he would be wise to keep his affairs hidden like a dirty secret so as not to upset the balance of his family.

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But if he is looking to become a polygamist, the right thing to do is to notify all the involved parties and that especially includes your wife. So Jamal Roho Safi’s actions smell of desperation and a scarcity mindset. I would argue that he is deathly afraid of losing Amira so instead, he attempted to finesse her into accepting the situation.

Jamal Roho Safi takes Amber Ray to meet parents

And that raises a second issue: never publicly humiliate your partner. What Jamal did with Amberay was to carry on and then break the news via social media so now his wife and the mother of his children is being humiliated in such a crushing and public way. Trust that women know how to nurse grudges.

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But at the end of the day, if indeed he did not inform his wife Amira before the rest of us, this speaks to his lack of respect for his marriage and the fact that indeed, he doesn’t need to involve himself in a polygamous marriage when he cannot ebven manage and lead his first marriage in a straight forward fashion. Why take on a second wife when you’re too scared of your first wife to tell her your decision?

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Amberay’s hubby Jamal Roho Safi is proof not all men can handle polygamy

Amberay was the talk of the town after she managed to get herself a husband in the form of Jamal Marlow who is by any interpretation of the words a high networth individual. What really pushed the narrative into the realm of juicy gossip is the fact that he is a married man prior to his taking her own.

What is interesting is that as soon as he made the declaration in an attempt to give his new wife legitimacy, his other family began to experience cracks as his wife started closing ranks with Amberay’s former co-wife (yes, this is the second time this lady has been involved in a polygamous setting) and even he had to accept that indeed, he was experiencing some turmoil pursuant to his decision.

Amberay, Jamal Marlow's new bride
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And at this point, the focus shifts entirely onto Jamal and the fact that he is clearly failing at maintaining a polygamous marriage. Which is hilarious tpp witness because his faith actually empowers him to take on two more wives.

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So why does he suck so bad at this whole polygamy thing given it is what a lot of men dream of. Let us dive into a few factors that are both his failure and the reason why he might eventually oversee the failure of his household:

Jamal introduces Amberay to his people

#1. He publicly humiliated his wife

You never ever humiliate the mother of your children unnecessarily and that is precisely what he did. You see, Jamal does not know the edicts of what makes marriages work and one of those edicts is the fact that even as you pursue an affair you never humiliate your wife.
And inorder to protect his new wife’s public image, he has done precisely that, completely forgetting about his family (at least from what we see on social media) and focusing solely on Amberay.

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His wife has doubtless had to endure DMS and even whispers as she goes about her business. Some of which are laden with pity while most are laden with vitriol. Trust me when I say that at his weakest, Jamal will have to contend with his first wife’s ire because as the adage goes, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

#2. He has taken on a wife who belongs to the streets

Amberay is a single mother who got involved with a multimillionaire failed politician in the person of Zaheer Jhanda who found out he couldn’t wife her and stay with his homestead intact. He too was a muslim.
It is the height of hubris to simply assume you will succeed where your predecessor failed. To top that off, this is a woman who was happy to be a video vixen for the celebrities she dated.

Jamal Marlow Jimal Roho Safi

Not only does this socialite not have a great relationship track record, but she was also once shown to have visited a witch doctor -a claim she refused, saying she was acting in an ad that was never released. Add to this the fact that she lacks the common sense to know she shouldn’t be stirring the waters of the family she is now joining and you see why there is a huge cause for concern.

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#3. The relationship started out as an affair

As my mentor put it, “If she cheated for you, she will cheat on you”

According to Jamal’s wife, when the two started dating, she had no idea what was going on. This goes contrary to Islamic teachings but more importantly, it is only a fool who thinks that a woman who was willing to be his partner as he partook in infidelity is going to be loyal to him.

Perhaps for now Jamal is safe because they have new relationship energy going for them. Perhaps it is because he is the best possible option available to Amberay or perhaps she simply wants to prove the haters wrong. But the day will come when other options will avail themselves to her. What then?

 

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