Marya Prude is wrong, marriage is an achievement

Marya Prude has come out to speak about her abortive marriage to Willis Raburu while she was 23 year old and she feels that it (marriage and being married) is not an achievement.

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I woke up this morning with so much to do in my mind and I just remembered I got married at 23, yes yes! Mind-blowing  23! Idk what the fuck i was thinking.

I would be so far rn if I wasn’t busy serving society and other humans their expectations of me as a married woman coz I would be doing most of what I’m doing rn to catch up.
Alafu pia marriage isn’t an achievement ok bye…

But thing is, she is wrong and science is here to save the day from people making their reality, their necessity a virtue. Especially for women.

Willis Raburu vs Marya Prude: The difference between how men and women handle broken marriage

Understand that unlike what your favourite feminist will tell you, I believe men and women are better together. That is because we were created to be together. And so I need to correct the silly notion Marya Prude is pushing.

You see, the most unhappy demography are single, childless women aged between 45-70 because life gets pretty lonely. And there is a Yale paper on this called the Paradox of Declining Female Happiness.

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So where do marriages come into all this? Well, for starters, Marya Prude is 100% wrong when she claims that they aren’t an achievement. Why? Because they are the best way for us to raise the next generation. Seriously, children born to married or otherwise committed couples have a better chance of raising successful, balanced and happy children.

And then there is the fact that feminists over the years have been shaming women for wanting to be mothers, wives and homemakers while hypocritically calling for women to be anything they want to be.

With the way Marya Prude is healing, Willis Raburu’s marriage is truly dead

And Marya Prude arguing that marriage isn’t an achievement means she has swallowed that lie… Or maybe she’s still bitter. And who can blame her? Her marriage came to an end due to some horrendous situations borne of two miscarriages.

But the truth is, women who do not have families tend to be heavily on antidepressants and that’s something we need to appreciate. Also, it takes hard work to make a marriage and the subsequent family a success. Make no mistake about it, it needs you to be fully plugged in.

But then this is the one task in life that is its own reward. And it’s why it is so satisfying for both men and women. Ultimately, we are organisms whose drive is to procreate and the best setting for healthy successful offspring is a family so ofcourse marriage is an achievement.

Unless ofcourse, you’re a modern woman whose only idea of success is a hollow notion that wasn’t even you’re first whim as a child but rather from feminists who don’t even know that older feminists have come out to disavow the bullshit they spewed.

That also stems from the modern way of thinking that claims that a modern woman isn’t fully experiencing life unless she is in the workforce, aiming for a career and also sexually promiscuous. And this is all false. There is no shame knowing from the jump that what you want is a monogamous relationship.

Marya Prude needs to go for therapy and counselling because it still feels like her ideas on marriage are informed by her failed marriage because on the flip side, her ex-husband moved on to a new marriage and he is happy with his wife and their children.

Sources:

https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual_Life/Stevenson_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness_Dec08.pdf