Lillian Muli is dating a Ben10 BUT…

Lillian Muli is finally dating again and we are happy to see it. She seems happier and more confident and what has shocked many is the fact that she is currently dating a Ben10 which is something alot of single women are hoping to emulate in their own lives. However, while this might seem like a step up for her, we have a word of caution for anyone who will try this.

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You see, Lillian Muli dating a Ben10 is definitely how Stella got her groove back but Stella had to pay her way through the relationship and Lillian Muli definitely has to do the same thing. What do I mean? Well, ask yourself why a young man who has the ability to get any woman would settle for dating an old woman… It smells of the Oedipal complex and he needs to be compensated for his time.

Ladies, do it yourself this Valentines – Lilian Muli

Aside from that, which attractive, healthy young man do you know with his pick of the litter when it comes to the ladies would opt to date an old lady? Think about it. A young man would willingly tether himself to an old lady out of love? Come on, we aren’t in some Disney flick.

Lillian Muli needs to stop giving dating advice and focus on herself

Then too, there is the fact that such a relationship has an expiry date right from the very beginning. So you know it is all about fun times. Why? Because there is almost no advantage for a man dating her outside of the fact that she will allow him to drive her car and also give him pocket money but you know you cannot rely on your Ben10 when real life decides to invite itself into your life.

But, assuming Lillian Muli is foolish enough to pursue an actual relationship with her Ben10… Then she will spend the rest of her life fighting off other women’s attention and acting as if she were some deranged obsessive partner. Every little interaction her man has with any other woman will be up for scrutiny. Any small conversation will be seen as flirting. Ad nauseam.

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And add to this the fact that her insecurities will be ramped up to the nth level. Is she young enough for her man? Can she start a family with him and sire his children? Can Lillian Muli be as fun as other women his age? These are the type of insecurities some I have seen in situations such as these. Constantly bugging your partner to give you reassurances to put your mind at ease. And newsflash, it always ends up badly.

However, one thing that I am sure she is happy about is the fact that she has acquired a brand new fanboy. Someone who grew up watching her on TV and is probably constantly fawning over her. Not to mention the fact that he doesn’t come with half the baggage men like Jared Nevaton come with.

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Kamba curse? Why Betty Kyallo and Lilian Muli’s relationships always fail

Right off the bat, allow me to admit that the title was tongue-in-cheek. In discussing Betty Kyallo and Lillian Muli’s failed relationships, there will be nothing about a Kamba curse. This is first and foremost because ethnicity has no bearing on an individual’s personality and secondly because I am not a superstitious lout who puts any thought towards curses and other nonsense.

Nick Ndeda on why dating Betty Kyallo is too much pressure

That said, the two media personalities have a lot in common including their ethnicity. But what really binds them together is the fact that they are both modern women. As a result of this fact, they have both been married and failed at that. They are both now single mothers and both have had a string of ill-fated relationships that have not just ended in heartbreak but often times public scandal to boot.

Betty Kyallo

Betty Kyallo had announced that she was dating a city lawyer by the name of Nick Ndeda and the internets went wild. Every single, over 30, career driven woman was elated at the news. It meant that there was hope yet for her. The same thing happened when the Nairobian, Standard Group’s tabloid ran stories about Lillian Muli dating Jared Nevaton, a shadowy businessman. These two women were held up as examples of there being love at the end of the tunnel.

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The two ladies are clearly capable of finding love or it’s cheap imitation. So if they can attract men, why can’t they seem to keep any of these men? Well, there is no single answer to that question but rather a series of interesting answers. Let’s get right into the whys and the wherefores.

#1. Both Betty Kyallo and Lillian Muli are boss babes

Forget what your favourite vapid feminist influencer tells you, no man wants to date let alone marry a boss babe. Why? Because for some reason, this makes women insufferable. No man wants to have to deal with a woman who believes herself to be in competition with him. Sure, we want a woman who has the business savvy to run their enterprises or to pursue their career but the minute I have to start competing with you in the house then I want out. Men want women who will give them peace.

The only benefit Nick Ndeda gets from dating Betty Kyallo

Proverbs 27:15
A constant dripping on a day of steady rain
And a contentious woman are alike;

#2. They are famous so men want to be associated with them

When they were younger, men saw them as trophies. The cherry ontop of their successful careers or businesses. Now that they are older, men still consider a romp with them as somewhat of an achievement. They figure that sleeping with such famous celebrities is worth more than your average bedpost notch. And as a result, their DMs will forever more be flooded by thirsty men looking for that cheap thrill till their sixties.

Lillian Muli Complaining About Dating Rich Men Is Nonsense

#3. They conflate sexual desire with relationship desire

Back to the second point; just because a man desires you sexually doesn’t mean he desires a relationship wit you. This is sadly a lesson very few women in Nairobi seem to fully grasp. Simply because you have many men in your DMs doesn’t mean any one of them would jump at the opportunity to wife you up. And getting the two conflated is the reason why Betty Kyallo and Lillian Muli have had such unfulfilling and shortlived relationships. I guarantee you that they already rue not cherishing their first marriages enough. I mean, sure, a lot of men want to take them on exotic destination vacations but that is only for as long as they excite their hormones. Once that novelty is worn out, its back to the streets for the two bitter media darlings.

Former couple, Betty Kyallo and Dennis Okari

#4. Buggage

Do you think that having been in loving relationships and failing at them doesn’t make a person jaded? And don’t you think jaded individuals carry that attitude like a chip on their shoulder into the next relationship? The two divorces between the pair is buggage enough. No man wants to be compared to their woman’s past lovers. And no man wants to have to deal with famous men in his woman’s list of lovers.
And seeing how they both aired out their former partners and the fathers of their children, which man would be willing to risk such publicly played out drama? No man worth his salt, that’s who.

Lillian Muli needs to stop giving dating advice and focus on herself

#5. They are single mothers

I mean, show me a single man worth his salt who would choose to take on another man’s children. Any man who knows he has options with women would not. And that is even when they have children of their own because life is simply not fair. No man wants to play part time dad to Denis Okari’s now Jared Nevaton’s child. So both Betty Kyallo and Lillian Muli find themselves hamstrung by this fact.

I am sure there are plenty of reasons more but these are the ones that jumped me at a cursory glance. Feel free to add more or debate with yourself on whether or not I am wrong.

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Lillian Muli Complaining About Dating Rich Men Is Nonsense

Lillian Muli recently decided to make some noise about why it isn’t smart for young women to exclusively focus on dating wealthy men -and other short stories.

Lillian Muli needs to stop giving dating advice and focus on herself

I found it hilarious that a woman could be both right and wrong at the same time. She is of course, right that young girls shouldn’t exclusively be driven by the idea of dating wealthy men but that is because I am a young uni student still on my come up so envy?

Ladies, do it yourself this Valentines – Lilian Muli

However, Lillian Muli is wrong because he motives aren’t about helping young girls, they are simply predicated by the fact she can no longer attract such men -men who she would have had no problems attracting in her… younger days.

Lillian Muli laughs off claims of conspiring to con her baby daddy Kes 10 million

If you know her story then you know she was married and divorced and one of the issues that those around her and her relationship pointed at as a problem was the fact that she kept trying to monkey branch to wealthier men even while she was with her husband. To his credit, he hasn’t really publicly spoken about the mess she put him in.

Anyway, when she could attract such men, Lillian Muli was a “girl with standards”. She only ever wanted to be associated with wealthy men. One time is a mistake, the third time, it’s a habit.

Lillian Muli and her baby daddy Jared Nevaton take chopper ride to Kisii for a business trip (Photos)

And she was not particularly selective outside of financial considerations. And it is not like she can feign ignorance because when it was revealed she was dating her “community husband” Jared Nevaton. Remember him? She was warned about his dubious source of income and the fact that he was still in fact, married to an American woman.

But she does have a point. Lillian Muli has learnt first-hand that he had options. Which wealthy man doesn’t have options? And which man with options wouldn’t exercise them? But you know, more on how water is wet.

At the end of the day, women look for men who have utility and money is the only measure of such. Sad but true that while women and children are human beings, men are human doings.

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Lillian Muli needs to stop giving dating advice and focus on herself

Lillian Muli is discussing relationships and at this point, I have to ask you lot why you’re paying attention to anything she has to say on the matter because let’s face it, her’s have all been spectacular failures.

Lillian Muli laughs off claims of conspiring to con her baby daddy Kes 10 million

She was first married to a man named Moses Kanene but that marriage ended in a ball of fire with the two trading accusations -actually, it was only the media personality who launched into verbal attacks against her ex-husband.

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Ms Muli steps out in a bikini

Then Lillian Muli moved on to be with a variety of others but finally, she ended up trying to start a family with Jared Nevaton but that was a short-lived attempt that saw her accuse him of being a community husband -a fact she had been soundly warned about.

Lillian Muli and her baby daddy Jared Nevaton take chopper ride to Kisii for a business trip (Photos)

That dalliance, however, brought her a beautiful baby boy and she has treated us to photos of her son with his father as Jared Nevaton sought to co-parent with her. And that is fantastic but that doesn’t answer the question as to why anyone would listen to her for dating advice.

Lillian Muli in a dera

And I would strongly suggest that she too stop listening to her own advice. She needs to stop drinking her cool-aid because in truth, the definition of madness is doing the same thing over again and expecting different results.

Betty Kyallo claps back at haters after Lillian Muli reveals she is not splitting with baby daddy

Lillian Muli needs to focus on herself and she needs to work at healing from any traumas her former relationships left her with. And make no mistake about it, they have left her bitter.

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Celebrated TV personality, Lillian Muli

Gone is the sweet innocent young lady who first debuted on our screens who believed in the power of love. Now what we have is a bitter, jaded woman who merely pays lip service to the belief of love and it is quite easy to tell the difference.

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She needs to put herself first by first going for therapy. This would have a great net benefit to her life as she would be in a better, more healthy place to raise her sons. And beyond that, Lillian Muli would now be in a more healthy place were a relationship to occur -as unlikely as that might seem right now.

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Bubbly TV girl, Lillian Muli keeps getting into trash relationships but sh is the common denominator in all of them

She has previously teased being in the gym attempting to get her fitness back but now she needs to commit to that. She needs to actually chase fitness so that if the relationships she so clearly craves occur, she is the best possible version of herself. I, however, think it is very unlikely that she will do the work to improve herself.

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